Showed My Office Tantrums to My Husband

[a digital marketer](username) That's why I asked are you comfortable if the same happened with you and you've doged that question 2 times. Ok let me ask if you're been living with this guy for so long, are you sure he can read people's expression or he has this kind of understanding. Some people do not have this understanding of how people are feeling. Also kudos to you for playing women card in the end. I think you can read. Right? Hopefully the answer is yes, then read it again I wrote the answer for both sides. You think your husband is now gaslighting you, very well, now let ne judge you and say that you are a kind of person who has not been with many harships, you may ask why. Because if you had hard life, this pitty think would not have mattered. Also I've seen WOMEN working and handling a kid as well, she's my Mother. I've seen her hardships, I've went through same. But the thing that I'm speaking of, my mother taught me. So if you're trying to say I'm not able to understand if a woman has feelings or not. Lady you are sooooooo wrong. I've been my mother's and she has been my support system. I don't want to say this but let me give you a glimpse what had happened in my life, when my father had heart attack, I was in college, after that I started taking private tutions from 5 to 10, one of the parents agreed to give me timing of 10:45 to 11:45 because his kid was not very good. Now think I had to wake at 6, cook for my parents me, pack my lunch, clean whole house, wash all dishes, wash my clothes, go to college, bunk last 2 classes, go give tutions then get back to my home till 12:10, then eat my food. Do the work given to me by profs then rinse and repeat. Even after that I use to get angry at every small things and my mother taught me how to control my emotions and how this menial thing should not affect my life. If you think your life is so bad, your husband is gaslighting you, everyone is judging you because again I would say : 1. You wanted validation that you were right. 2. You wanted to prove your husband wrong so that you're free from this guilt or burden. 3. You again played a women card and a victim card, since you're a working woman I'm pretty sure you're that much tough otherwise lady you won't survive in this corporate jungle where everyone wants to screw everyone over. 4. You apologised yet I'm pretty sure you don't think you're at wrong. 5. Now you've used a fancy word Gaslighting, now if you're affected by it, that means you're so gullible that anyone can use you easily and you're working in corporate. My Suggestion: None of this would matter, neither your stress, your work, when you'd be sick then that man will stand right beside you, he'll support you and be with you all the time. And again I would it does not matter if you're a Guy/Gal, when you've a partner with you. Ensure that you cherish that time, the biggest weapon in this world is TIME. Once it's gone, it's gone. No matter how much you GASLIGHT yourself it's gone, won't matter what gender you have. Can you cry and get 5 to 10 milliseconds of your life back because you're a woman. No, sadly the rule of the Nature is same. Live your life without thinking about these small things. Also if you're a women, trust me there are people who'll say anything just to make you happy and that's a curse. Please remember to be true to yourself. The day you start lying to yourself, it's gone, everything is gone. So guys that's it. To the WOMEN who has been GASLIGHTED by his husband or me or the society, Live well I know the felling when I got job and my mother was talking to some doctor regarding my father's condition and what next should be done. Instead of shouting at me she celebrated, and said that there is some good news that day. GASLIGHTED WOMEN that is you are living as a single entity with your husband, try to live as a couple and if your husband is same as you ask him to do same. To everyone else reading my rant , you little....... Good bless you and me too Chao ✌️