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Day to Day Office
1mo
a product operations executive
Backstabbing Colleague
So, there’s this colleague who seems to be going behind my back. They’re emailing the line manager and complaining about everything I do, decisions, situations, even my work. It feels like they’re keeping tabs on me just to criticize.
What’s the best way to deal with someone like this? Should I confront them or just keep doing my thing?
a sales executive
1mo
esa kaam hi kyu krte ho ki colleagues ko backstab krne ki zaroorat pde?
a product operations executive
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1mo
@a sales executive kaash aise kaam kiye hote atleast sochna nhi padta na
an analyst
1mo
I once experienced tha same situation.... Tab maine apni progress aur efforts ko document karna shuru kiya. It really helped. You can also start...
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@an analyst seems like a good idea, I will start doing that , but did you ever find out why it start... see more
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coderji
1mo
A Team Lead
Maybe they’re threatened by you?🤔Sometimes people can’t handle someone better than them on the same team..
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@coderji I doubt they are threatened, but yeah i feel like i am better than the lot Maybe changing j... see more
bugmaster
1mo
works at
Why do managers even listen to one sided complaints? Isn’t it their job to assess both sides?!
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@saltypurple if all managers did their jobs properly, who would we have to complain about?
kyachahiye
1mo
A Software Developer
Honestly people like that thrive because managers let them. Do you think your manager is encouraging this?
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@opinionatedonion I feel like he is, or else how would this backstabbing person get so much authorit... see more
dadiji
1mo
works at
Backstabbing happens when someone’s insecure. Think about it maybe you’re just better at the job than they are?
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@dadiji but then how is that my fault for being better?
wineymoose
1mo
An Operations Manager
Why waste time on them? If your manager can’t see through their behavior, maybe they’re the real problem
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@wineymoose True, I agree, but then it becomes difficult to stay motivated at work, doesn't it
theshark
1mo
A Process Associate
It’s weird how some people have so much time to complain about others. Do they even do their own work?!
a product operations executive
author
1mo
@theshark i think they have made it a part of their KRA to make my life a living hell .
thrillingkale
1mo
works at
Wo HR hai?
an operations executive
author
1mo
@thrillingkale nhi kyun ?
thelonewolf
1mo
works at
Is that colleague responsible for you in any dimension? If not, raise this to HR.
an operations executive
author
1mo
@thelonewolf i don’t have any hard proof yet otherwise i would have by now
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