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Day to Day Office
2mo (edited)
Should I Take the Risk?
I have a crush on a coworker who's higher up and earns more😅We work in different departments, and while she is two years younger than me, she belongs to a higher pay grade of employees who earn almost twice as much as I do, although we do almost similar work. Do you have any tips on how to approach her without making things awkward?
importantscorpion
3mo
works at
Do not shit where you eat.
intenseparrot
3mo
An Assistant Manager
@importantscorpion I get the sentiment. But honestly, for majority, office is the only place to meet... see more
fashionabledodo
3mo
works at
What is the logic/origin of forbidding asking co-workers out ? Why is it seen negatively? How and why is it different from asking out a college mate ? Only because money is involved in the workplace and earning money is serious business ?
Also ... see more
sleekchapati
3mo
A Team Lead
We spend 50 hours of the week at the office. Plus 30 hours a week travelling. What better place to date than at work ?
importantscorpion
3mo
works at
@sleekchapati Find date in the 🚇
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punctualcircuit
3mo
works at
Can you be subtle about it, and not let her know of your intentions at least initially? Don't be forthcoming at all. Just ask her for a stroll and then a coffee to a nearby place. Make sure to limit the time to not more than 15-20 minutes to gau... see more
a software engineer
3mo
@punctualcircuit Well you can start with some mild flirting first to check her reaction.
crunchytikka
3mo
works at
The only way to find out is to ask her. Though, don't be in hurry and your direct approach may freak her out. First plan a small outing or dinner type of things with few friends around. And once you think comfortable at some later point, ask her if she wants to joi... see more
gemsbond
author
2mo
works at
@crunchytikka Thanks man!
fastandcurious
3mo
works at
Okay, but what is she getting out of you ? Why would anyone be interested in someone older than them and making less than what they make ? Also, you might not know but its hard to find any single working women in this age. You need to check that out.
gemsbond
author
3mo (edited)
works at
@fastandcurious Fair enough. If she decides she's not intere... see more
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casuallycrying008
3mo
An Ops Executive
I think you're emphasizing too much on your designation and pay. Women do not check your designation nor pay scale before choosing to go out with you. You ought to be thinking more in lines of whether she is attracted to you or if she feels you'd make good company.... see more
gemsbond
author
2mo
works at
@casuallycrying008 I am not sure about her feelings
hrterminator
3mo
currently not working
Bro POSH wants to know your Location 🤣🤣
Don't you think ye sab office k bahar hi sahi hai ?
a deputy manager
3mo
@oldshinchan POSH mailer is on the way
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shortkuala
2mo
works at
Never date your colleague or co-workers
swagpumpkin
2mo
An Ops Executive
@shortkuala yar fun to h
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thelonewolf
2mo
works at
Oh boy! Do NOT go there! Not unless one of you is no longer in the company. Two reasons: You miscalculate and the person files an internal case against. OR, Someone who knows you both files a case against you. Anything close enough to "liking/crushing" on someone i... see more
awesomesnail
2mo
works at
@thelonewolf I don't agree!! Plenty of people meet their partners at work. it’s natural when you spe... see more
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