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bugmaster
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For those who live alone, how do you handle the silence?

Sure, you have people around, flatmates, coworkers, friends....and family is just a call away. But still, it can get incredibly quiet, and sometimes the noise inside your head becomes overwhelming. How do you cope with that? P.S. I live with family now, so there's always some drama going on....But I’ve lived alone before, so I know what it feels like. Also, I’m not sure if this is what loneliness feels like, or if it’s something closer to depression?
a sales executive
5d
I totally get this. When I lived alone, the silence used to hit me the hardest in the evenings. I started playing background music or podcasts just to fill the space, not necessarily because I wanted to listen to something, but because the quiet felt oppressive. It's like a comfort thing, even if you're not actively engaging with it. As for the loneliness part, I think it's a mix of both.... sometimes it's the quiet that makes you feel disconnected, but I’ve also realized that loneliness and depression can look similar and feed into each other.
a product manager
5d
I find that when I’m alone, my mind tends to run wild. I cope by staying busy ....whether it’s a side project, cooking, or even organizing. But what helped me the most is reaching out to people more often, even if it’s just a short text to a friend or family member. It’s like making an effort to break the isolation, and those little connections make a huge difference. For me, I’d say it's a bit of both... loneliness and depression sometimes overlap, but I find being intentional about staying connected can help.
an analyst
5d
I’ve lived alone for years, and initially, the silence felt like a vacuum. Now, I’ve learned to embrace it more, like, it’s my space to recharge. I meditate a lot now to cope with the noise in my head. The stillness has its own beauty, but there are moments when I can feel the weight of isolation, especially during the winter months. I don’t think it’s depression for me, it's more about missing the presence of others.
a software developer
5d
Silence used to be a huge struggle for me when I lived alone, but I eventually found comfort in creating a routine. I started doing things like reading, cooking, or even going for walks in the evening. And while I was alone physically, I would always text friends or call my mom just to chat. It’s not always the same as having someone in the house, but it helped ease the feeling of isolation. In terms of whether it’s loneliness or depression, I think both can overlap ,the isolation can trigger those feelings, but it’s important to recognize when it crosses into something deeper, like depression.
dadiji
5d
works at
Honestly, I think we overcomplicate this whole loneliness thing. I’ve lived alone for years, and sometimes I enjoy the silence. It gives me time to reflect and just be. I’ve never really felt like I was lonely, it’s more about being comfortable in your own company. People these days are so desperate for constant interaction, but I believe it’s a mental shift. The noise in your head is just a result of not knowing how to be alone. The silence is a gift if you can learn how to embrace it
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pudina
3d
currently not working
I have been through this, well. Play strategic games, listen to music, go out for a morning/evening walk. Thats all . I just tend to adapt to it within 2 days.
p1x3l
1d
works at
It's been years since I've talked to someone. #Mylife Live alone, cook eats, work hard, get what you wanted.
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