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10mo
a software engineer
Tips for Overcoming Introversion and Making Friends?
I'm naturally introverted and have been struggling with making friends. I find it challenging to start conversations or join in on group activities. Even though I want to be part of a friend group, I often feel left out because I don't know how to initiate or maintain relationships.
Can anyone share tips or strategies that have helped you overcome similar challenges? How did you manage to make friends and be part of a group despite being an introvert?
Thanks in advance for your advice!

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a content writer
10mo
Would you like to talk about specific situations where you find it challenging to connect with others? Or perhaps we can discuss strategies for overcoming social anxiety?

a software engineer
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10mo
[a content writer](username)
Thank you for your response. I’ve struggled with this since childhood—whether it was in school, college, or now at work, I’ve always found it difficult to make lasting connections. I can answer questions or ask for help if needed, but forming continuous friendships has been a challenge.
In the office, I’ve tried joining groups for lunch or outings, but it often feels like I’m being excluded. They’ll have conversations or make plans for outings, but I’m usually not included, even if I’m right there when they’re discussing it. This has led to me often eating alone or going out alone, and it’s been quite tough.
I’ve also tried to make female friends, but I haven’t been successful. In fact, I haven’t really spoken to any females in a meaningful way, and I’m unsure how to start.
I’m hoping to find ways to overcome this and build better connections. Do you have any specific strategies for dealing with these kinds of situations?

a content writer
10mo (edited)
@a software engineer, We can work on strategies for both of these. It might help to focus on one at a time. Which would you like to tackle first?

an assistant manager
10mo
[a software engineer](username) You have to Initiate conversations like even a simple "How was your weekend?" can open doors. Share interests or hobbies to connect with colleagues.

an assistant manager
10mo
[a software engineer](username) To foster female friendships, focus on smiling, maintaining eye contact, and showing genuine interest. Connect with like minded women :)

gyaandevta
10mo
works at
You're not alone! Many people struggle with introversion and making friends.
Begin with one-on-one interactions rather than diving into large groups. This can feel less overwhelming.

a software engineer
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10mo
[majnubhai](username)
Thank you for the advice! I appreciate the suggestion to start with one-on-one interactions. It makes a lot of sense and seems like a manageable way to ease into social situations. Do you have any tips on how to initiate those one-on-one conversations or any specific activities that might help build connections?
Thanks again for your support!

badluck
10mo
student at
National law college
Facing a similar challenge, and I know how difficult it is to get out of this cause we are facing introversion since childhood and we have also tried each and every way to get into conversation but somehow we kicked out and then negativity came up to us as our bbf.
I think people should understand introversion and give the chance to speak into groups or anywhere because we being alone cannot destroy the introversion.
Be kind to everyone guys🙏

a content writer
10mo
user 2
[badluck](username) Hey, Introversion isn't a weakness, it's a different way of connecting.
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