Quitting Without an Offer: Need Advice on Work-Life Imbalance

Dear Sir, i am facing the same at my current employer. But quitting my job is not possible. I have a lot of responsibilities. So, until I don't find any other offer i will stay.

I saw a reel which said: MAN - Sacrifices his health in order to make money and then he sacrifices his money to recuperate his health.

I have a different perspective. A lot may not agree, but hear it out. I've recently been couple of transitions and surely uncertainty of my future. However, with work-life balance; look at it this way. I have a family that I'd like to give them the best possible life and for that, there are instances wherein I need sacrifice my comfort a bit. Most often its impossible to have a great life, give a great life to the family and enjoy your work at a leisurely manner. Work-life balance is always about what part of that you need to stabilize; if your work needs stability, you then need to cut corners in life. If your life needs balance, then work needs to step down in priority. Trying to balance both is itself a very stressful thing to do. Figure out what you need to stabilize and focus on that aspect only. I for example, have taken up Family and their lifestyle, I end up working 13-14 hours a day. Have been in night shifts since a decade, no Indian holidays and have the least leave record in the company! This is to ensure am on top of the game at my role to reduce the factor of uncertainty in your job. Consistently improving, ready to take up challenges. I also built an ability of accepting change, eliminating the anxiety that comes with transition. This is primarily by improved people skills. However, like i said I know am picking a decent salary that can provide for my family in the best possible manner and that puts a smile on my face. If I think about work-life balance, I may have a good life to enjoy with friends and trips and hangouts, but my parents, wife and children will not get the life they and I aspire for them. At the end of the day Work-life balance is a mind game, until you believe you have it, you'll never have it! Remember, there is only so far we can run away from Life. If your work environment is Toxic and you are feeling harassed or abused, your immediate decision must be to quit. If else, hectic is open-ended. I would encourage you try the following: >Build a support system of people. (colleagues, friends) >Ensure your communication with negatives are limited (friends who complain about their job, people who want to quit. Indian parents are not career or growth oriented, their first response will be Quit! But we know how challenging it is to find and keep a job) >spend quality time for yourself whenever possible. even if you just get 2 hours on the weekend, do what you like. A hobby, drive out alone, take a walk in the park, no phones, no music, just you. >Chart your finances well into the future, a simple spreadsheet can help you with clarity in this uncertain times. >Write your priorities in life, pick the 3 unique ones you want to solve and work towards it. >Talk to those who give you the energy, are positive and have proper knowledge to share. Meet with experts in each domain, even it its just fun coffee chats, there's a lot to learn. Everyone you talk to must be the best in their own business. >Talk to people about your situation, but do not look for answers or solutions. Their perspective of your life, will never be the answer to yours. Only you know your life and priorities well, get ideas. Consolidate the ideas and then take the call. >finally, don't rush through life. I'm not sure of your age, but this is the phase of life for most of us. You can make it great, if you face and navigate through the challenges, making your skillful and stronger for the future. If we skip this phase with an easy solution, you might not learn what is important for you to teach the next generation. Again, this is my perspective and is not meant to be a solution. Just some food for your thoughts. Its a great life out there. Go Live It.

Use this time to learn new skills or enhance existing ones.

Hey, man, take care of yourself first. If your job is stressing you out mentally and physically, quitting is a brave move. Your health comes first. Just make sure you have enough saved up to cover your expenses while you're looking for a new job

That's a good decision health should always be a priority. Just take this time to focus on yourself, recharge, and explore new opportunities. There are plenty of other jobs out there, and you'll find the right one eventually. Good luck!

Before quitting, make sure you have savings to cover 3-6 months of expenses, and check your notice period so you can leave the company on good terms. Take this time to network with people in your field and let them know you are looking for opportunities. You could also try freelancing or small projects to keep earning. Lastly, use this break to learn new skills or get certifications that can improve your chances in the job market.

Been there an year back, fortunately I was able to secure a job offer within a month of quitting. But then again that's just 1 case, another friend of mine did same and it took him 6+ months to find a decent job offer. So it depends on a lot of factors, mainly your profile, skills and a lot on your luck too. It's a calculated risk you need to take, given the tough job market currently.

I have done the same and I am very happy. You will definitely get a good job, do not compromise with your mental wellbeing.

I'm facing exactly same situation now & finally decided to resign without any offer in hand. It's a very risky decision but i have no other option to take that risk.

Just remember right fit takes time.

I am under same conditions, extremely toxic , 6 days work with rotational shifts makes life difficult. I would suggest start Upskilling and resign from your organisation, make sure you have sufficient funds for 4-6 months . And don’t worry everything will be fine. Health is most important thing.

If possible, negotiate for severance pay or extended benefits to help bridge the gap between jobs.

What are some specific aspects of your ideal work environment that you’re hoping to find in your next role?

Bro! Just take some time off and do nothing but just focus on exercise and food. You'll know what to do next 😌

My two cents here. Walk out and on people, places a d things that do not serve you your highest good, in life and at work. Focus on yourself, your mental health first. Money can be made. Careers will happen. Peace of mind once gone, you would be in trouble. Thank you and best wishes from.someone who Said goodbye to a high paying but not aligned job

Health should be always top priority so better to quit as earliest as possible...Once you are healthy mentally and physically you can crack any offer at some time. There are lots of jobs available in market.