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Day to Day Office
5mo
I had a bad talk with my boss!
I recently had a tough conversation with my boss. They weren't happy with my work and said some things that hurt my feelings. I'm trying to move past it, but it's hard. I've been feeling down and unmotivated lately. Do you have any advice on how to get through this and feel better?
importantscorpion
5mo
works at
The fact that they took the time to give you honest, and apparently true feedback, is extremely positive, view it that way. Learn from it, thank them for the frank and honest conversation. Tell them that even though it 'hurt' you really appreciate it.
an assistant manager
5mo (edited)
Most managers can't care less about the employee's well being they just want the employee as a cash cow making money for the company, and the moment the employee falters, they will harass him/her to termination. I learned this from my brother, who is an employment lawyer with 10+ years of experience.
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crunchytikka
5mo
works at
Depends where in the world you are, and the organization culture of where you work. I’ve been fortunate enough to work for corporates where this isn’t the case. Managers do care about their team. Altruism? Not always, as the success of the team reflects on the ability of the manager - great team = path to career progress etc.
widemermaid
5mo
A Senior Software Engineer
Business has two main reasons to hire people - revenue generation (potential profit) and risk mitigation (loss of revenue/profit).
When a manager tells you where you can improve, they still believe you can do one of those things. Tough conversations are healthy. (But not fun)
If they’re giving you feedback that’s a good sign. Take it and learn from it and assume your manager is trying their best.
The role of a manager is super hard, and often they’re not provided much training on now to coach and lead their team.
a sales executive
5mo
user 2
Take it professionally, not personally.
an operations executive
5mo (edited)
Yrrr take some time for self-care, talk to a friend or family member about this. Can anyone please suggest some strategies for managing stress and improving your mood under such situations?
a senior executive
5mo
oh man.. this is something that will take some time to process your feelings. Try to talk to someone you trust.
Focusing on the positives in your work or setting realistic goals for yourself could also help. Remember, it's okay to feel upset, but try to focus on moving forward.
How can you apply these strategies to your situation and improve your mood?
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